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How To Suggest a New Sexual Activity to a Partner

It is risky to suggest a new sexual activity to your partner. You are both stretching the boundaries of your current sexual connection while revealing a previously hidden sexual desire or interest. Trying new sexual...

How To Have Orgasms Through Intercourse?

Sexual intercourse allows for a lot of physical contact which can be very intimate and, if you have the appropriate body parts, can be very beneficial when trying to get pregnant. However, the reality remains that...

Should I be worried about the size of my labia featured

Should I be concerned about the size of my labia?

There is no objective “ideal labia” any more than there is an ideal hair length or nose size (although in my case, I’d have to say “ideal” would mean just a little bit smaller). There are many reasons to cut your hair...

Is There Such a Thing as Gateway Sex

Is There Such a Thing as Gateway Sex?

My girlfriend wants to go to a fetish party. She’s interested in exploring BDSM and I’m not against it but was raised with religion and I’m not sure how far I would go. If I start, is it hard to stop...

Does being circumcised change my sex life?

Question: Does being circumcised change my sex life? I’m a 37-year-old man who is recently divorced and just getting back into the swing of things with the dating scene. I’m also starting to have sex again for the first...

What makes a great lover

What Makes a Great Lover?

I’m a guy who mostly has female friends. They are always talking about one guy being such a “great lover” and another guy being terrible in bed. I’ve had three sexual partners in my life...

Is watching porn okay featured

Is Watching Porn Okay And How To Choose The Right One?

“My boyfriend really enjoys watching porn movies. It’s not an addiction or anything, and he wants us to watch together, but I’m not into it. We have a good sex life so far, and I want to figure out a way to...

How Important Is Sex?

Question: How Important Is Sex? I realize that is not an easy question to answer but how important is sex? Why have I been so obsessed with it for the last 11 months? Is is just hormones? Do I need to accept how good...