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Wanting More or Less Public Displays of Affection

How To Suggest a New Sexual Activity to a Partner

It is risky to suggest a new sexual activity to your partner. You are both stretching the boundaries of your current sexual connection while revealing a previously hidden sexual desire or interest. Trying new sexual...

Should I be concerned about the size of my labia?

There is no objective “ideal labia” any more than there is an ideal hair length or nose size (although in my case, I’d have to say “ideal” would mean just a little bit smaller). There are many reasons to cut your hair...

Pain during sex

Why Does Sex Hurt?

This isn’t a very nice thing to talk about, but having sex hurts. I’m not sure when it started, but pretty much every time I have sex I feel pain during it, and most of the time it hurts for a while afterwards. Is it...

Problems with orgasming

What Makes a Great Lover?

I’m a guy who mostly has female friends. They are always talking about one guy being such a “great lover” and another guy being terrible in bed. I’ve had three sexual partners in my life...