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Vibrator only orgasms

Why Can I Only Orgasm with My Vibrator?

Using a vibrator, I can have great and, at times, several orgasms, but I’ve never been able to achieve orgasm with my partner. We’ve been together for 6 years, he’s “the One,” and...

Does Anal Sex Always Hurt?

A common misconception is that anal sex hurts a little or a lot during the first few times (unlike the idea that vaginal sex must always hurt a lot the first time). In reality, sex, when performed the right way with the...

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Anal Retentive and Wondering

How do you get things out in the emergency room? Let’s say I’ve something stuck up your bum. Let’s just say it’s not an officially approved anal sex toy or a prostate massager. I’ve been...

Vibrator only orgasms

What is Tantric Sex?

Sex is exciting, but it is not anything new. There have probably been people who have thought, talked, and eventually written about what sex means and how we can make it more meaningful for as long as humans have been...

Orgasm during intercourse

How To Have Orgasms Through Intercourse?

Sexual intercourse allows for a lot of physical contact which can be very intimate and, if you have the appropriate body parts, can be very beneficial when trying to get pregnant. However, the reality remains that...

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Should I be concerned about the size of my labia?

There is no objective “ideal labia” any more than there is an ideal hair length or nose size (although in my case, I’d have to say “ideal” would mean just a little bit smaller). There are many reasons to cut your hair...

Why Does Sex Hurt?

This isn’t a very nice thing to talk about, but having sex hurts. I’m not sure when it started, but pretty much every time I have sex I feel pain during it, and most of the time it hurts for a while afterwards. Is it...

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Does being circumcised change my sex life?

Question: Does being circumcised change my sex life? I’m a 37-year-old man who is recently divorced and just getting back into the swing of things with the dating scene. I’m also starting to have sex again for the first...

Problems with orgasming

What Makes a Great Lover?

I’m a guy who mostly has female friends. They are always talking about one guy being such a “great lover” and another guy being terrible in bed. I’ve had three sexual partners in my life...

Can I Get Rid of My Fetish?

Question: Can I Get Rid of My Fetish? I received an email recently from someone describing a fetish they have. They felt that this fetish was ruining their life, making it difficult for them to find the romantic partner...

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How Important Is Sex?

Question: How Important Is Sex? I realize that is not an easy question to answer but how important is sex? Why have I been so obsessed with it for the last 11 months? Is is just hormones? Do I need to accept how good...