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Voyeur Self Masturbation

When it comes to voyeurism, we usually associate it with the act of watching someone else. Some consider it to be so.
But, on the other hand, voyeurism is defined by the act of watching or even simply being present at something, and the ways watching or being present is itself arousing.

This is something you can explore on your own, through masturbation. Take a moment and think back to the last few times you masturbated.

What were you paying attention to? If you are sighted, what were you looking at? If your masturbation includes erotic fiction, adult films, magazines, or comics when you’re nearest to the point of release or orgasm, where are you looking, what are you paying attention to?

Masturbate in front of a mirror

Next time you masturbate try to have a mirror nearby. The mirror creates a disassociation to yourself, so to your mind, it’s like you are watching a show featuring you.

You don’t have to look at your whole body if you don’t want to. Simply use a mirror that will allow you to see your face only.

When you’re masturbating, look into the mirror and assess your appearance. You should not have to examine yourself to know whether you are masturbating, but consider it a way of checking in and exploring masturbation from a new perspective. The effects can vary:

  • You may get extra turned on just by seeing yourself all hot and bothered.
  • You may find that seeing yourself helps you tune inward, becoming aware of thoughts and feelings that are floating through your mind and body as you self-pleasure.
  • You may notice things about the way your body moves when you masturbate, that you can play with or accentuate which can change the way masturbation feels.
  • You may feel silly at first, and find yourself criticizing your body.

If your reactions fall into that last category, don’t force the mirror exercise. But this technique can be a great way to work on negative body image too. It means you need to go slowly and make a serious effort to stop being self-critical and start telling yourself positive things about yourself.

Masturbate self image

It is very important to manage to orgasm while watching yourself masturbate. To ensure you will easily reach that sweet sensation, you can use various kinds of sex toys.

Bunny vibrators offer dual stimulation – clitoral and vaginal. Mini bullet sex toys are intended for clit stimulation, just like the clit sucking vibrators.

For men, the most preferred options include male strokers, anal vibrators, and prostate massagers. It is up to you to choose the best form of stimulation during your voyeur self-masturbation session.

You can also make use of all the inexpensive video recording equipment most of us have in our homes (on our computers, smartphones, and digital cameras).

You want to be very careful not to leave anything recorded that might get out of your hands (erasing is easy). But you could film yourself masturbating. After you might want to watch it. Even if you don’t, knowing you are on camera, being “seen”, can change up the way it feels and you may discover new fantasies or feelings you didn’t know were there.

It can be difficult to orgasm when you are visualizing yourself during masturbation if that isn’t going to work for you. Try to masturbate while imagining yourself as someone else and your entire body, just like if you were watching yourself perform a sex act in the mirror.

This may take you out of your body a bit, and so it might not work for everyone, but it’s an interesting exercise in changing your masturbation perspective, and you can use your imagination to add some heat to what’s actually happening in the room (add a costume, add a background, or add some extra characters).

Amie Dawson PhD

Amie is webmistress and head honcho at TheToy. She’s been married for seven years and has two kids.

For the past 10years Amie has lived the swinging lifestyle and gets to practice what she preaches at TheToy.

Sometimes technically challenged but always willing to try something new is the best way to describe Amie. Her motto in life is: “There is no such word as Can’t, take off the T and make it can.”