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How to use a Clit Sucker Safely (And Maximum Pleasure Tips)

Using clit suckers is generally safe, as affirmed by pelvic medicine specialist Michael Ingber. These devices, ideal for both solo masturbation sessions and partnered play, are particularly beneficial for those with a vulva, often enhancing arousal before intercourse.

It is advisable to familiarize yourself with the suction toy alone before introducing it during partnered activities. This lets you gently and gradually increase the intensity, ensuring comfort and avoiding discomfort or pain. Though rare, excessive suction has been known to cause blood vessel and tissue damage.

To maximize safety and enjoyment while using clit sucking vibrators:

  • Begin with low air pressure settings and increase intensity slowly.
  • Choose body-safe silicone clit suckers from reputable brands.
  • Pay attention to your body’s responses and adjust usage accordingly.

Clit suckers can provide instant orgasms, prolonged pleasure, or even aid in delaying gratification, depending on your preference.

Amie Dawson about using her clit sucker toys
Amie Dawson on how to use a clit sucker

Guide to Using a Clit Sucker Toy

Classic Technique:

  1. Apply lubricant around your clitoris and the vibrator’s nozzle.
  2. Ensure the suction toy’s opening forms a tight seal against the labia.
  3. Experiment with various intensity levels and patterns of the sucking vibrator.
  4. Maintain contact with the clitoris until climax.
  5. Turn off the device, clean it, and store it safely.

Licking Technique:

Imitating oral sex, the soft silicone opening feels like firm lips on your delicate clitoris.

  • Follow steps 1 and 2 as in the classic technique.
  • Gently glide the toy up and down.

Surround the Clit Technique

It is ideal for sensitive clitorises or teasing play.

  • Follow steps 1 and 2.
  • Instead of direct contact, position the nozzle around the clitoris.

Pause and Go Technique

This technique is akin to edging, where you approach orgasm and then pause, leading to more intense climaxes.

Nip Tease Technique

A unique way to stimulate sensitive nipples, offering a different kind of bedroom excitement.

Remember, the key to using a clit sucking vibrator is to experiment and find the technique that brings you the most pleasure.

Care and Cleaning Tips

  • Regular cleaning is crucial, especially when sharing the toy.
  • Clean hard plastic and silicone toys with antibacterial soap and water.
  • If your toy is 100% silicone, it may be dishwasher-safe (top rack) – check the instructions.
  • Avoid boiling your clitoral suction toy, as high temperatures could harm its mechanism.

Tips on maximizing the pleasure while using clit suckers:

  1. Keep It Fully Charged: For peak performance, ensure your clit sucking vibrator is always fully charged. This guarantees powerful operation and prolongs the battery life and the vibrator’s lifespan.
  2. Arouse Yourself First: Warm-up is key. Before using a clit sucking toy, get yourself aroused. This intensifies the sensation when you use the vibrator. Engage all your senses in the process – watch, listen, smell, touch, and even taste things that turn you on.
  3. Use Water-Based Lubricant: Even with the silky silicone of the best clit suckers, a bit of water-based lube enhances the experience. It prevents friction, allowing a perfect seal around the clitoris and potentially simulating the sensation of oral sex. Also, with a clit suction vibrator without lubricant, there can be intense friction between the toy and the clit, which can be extremely uncomfortable and even cause bleeding. I recommend not using these toys in the shower because they can wash the lube.
  4. Correct Positioning: Position the clit carefully within the sucker. The magic happens when the clitoris is centered in the air pulse circular opening. Ensure the vibrator is placed correctly before turning it on.
  5. Start Slow: Begin with the lowest setting and gradually explore other intensities. Try the pulsing modes for a varied experience.
  6. Mix it up with other sex toys: combining clitoral suction stimulation with anal or G-spot vibrators can cause enhanced stimulation that can lead to explosive orgasms.
  7. Mix it up with penetrative sex: clit suckers are excellent for couples play. The intense clitoral stimulation during vaginal or anal intercourse can help even women that never orgasm from penetrative sex.
  8. Experiment with Settings: Don’t hesitate to try all the pulse patterns and intensity levels. Each person has unique preferences, so explore to find what works best for you and stick to the enjoyable settings.
  9. Pressure Control: Adjusting how firmly you press the toy against your body can significantly alter the sensation. Lighter pressure can offer a teasing, gentle stimulation, while more pressure can increase intensity.
  10. Heat and Cold Play: Some people enjoy using temperature play in conjunction with a clit sucker. Warming up or cooling down the toy (as long as it’s safe with its material) can add an extra layer of sensation.
  11. Mindful Breathing: Incorporating deep, conscious breathing can enhance the arousal and experience. Focus on your breath as you explore different settings and techniques.

Who should benefit from using a clitoral suction vibrator

  • If you have a clitoris and enjoy clit stimulation, these pulsing devices will get your climaxes to a new level
  • Couples having difficulty orgasm.
  • People on the go – clit suckers are quiet, discrete and lightweight.
Amie Dawson, Ph.D.

Amie Dawson, Ph.D.

Amie is your go-to gal for all things related to sex and sexual well-being.

A certified sex educator and award-winning sex toy reviewer, Amie has spent her career empowering individuals and couples to embrace their sexuality.

With a Ph.D. in Human Sexuality and an ever-growing collection of over 200 vibrators, she's got the knowledge and experience to guide you on your pleasure-seeking journey.

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